So today comes with its new worries...
Yesterday I got a "motion to revoke probation" when I completed everything that I was supposed to.
Okay, let's back up a bit. Last year my mother (I use that term loosely) was off her meds as she bragged to everyone about. And she did everything she could to counter my efforts of leaving Mike (my soon to be ex) in a safe (using that term lightly as well) environment. We got into an argument and she decided to call 911 and claim I hit or pushed her. Ofcours that didn't happen. But the courts don't care about what's true, they care about squeezing money out of anyone they can. She didn't have witnesses, no marks (ofcours) nothing. But I also didn't have witnesses that nothing happened. So ofcours they took her side, cause that's where the city gets their money.
My mother will do anything for attaintion. And her favorite is to appear as though she's abused. That attaintion she craves cost me a job, and good job offer after, $300 dollars, a night in jail, homelessness, expensive counceling I didn't need, stuck living with one of Mikes friends who's house rules was, there were no bubbles. He could be in my bubble as much as he wanted in his home. And he made it clear to Mike that I needed to understand the rules. Between my mother, Mike being an ass and his friend making my life hell, and 2 weeks of trying to commit suicide every night... I finally gave in to his friend.
So now that your caught up..
The city wants to come after me and revoke my probation for not doing the counceling. Of which I did. When I called up the prosecutor and asked about it, she first treated me like I was stupid cause it says why they are coming after me on the papers. Um, ya, that's exactly why I was calling her, cause I DID complete it. Then she got rude with me for saying that I did it. There was no reason for her to act that way. Very unprofessional.
So I called up the counselor that attended and hope that this mess will be taken care of. Maybe it's better he talks to her, cause clearly I'm gonna get no where with this. In the prosecutor's eyes, I'm scum. And she didn't waist a second treating me like it.
And, there's something else...
Another worry I have is the scam that Steve is getting involved with. And it's kinda my fault.
I was looking on Craigslist to see if anyone around town may have put up jobs there, in the help wanted. I came across an ad for a car wrap. A company will pay people a lot of money to let them wrap their car in their ads. I found one of these ads. Bad thing is, there is a lot of scams on this now and it's hard to know who the real deal is. We both wrote into this. I (being my stuborn self) told the lady that I will not take an over payment and I will not give money back, send money anywhere or give the guy that does the wrap any money. They would have to pay him themselves. She never spoke to me again. However, she sent Steve a check of over a thousand dollars, hes supposed to take $500 of it out for himself, and give the guy doing the wrap the rest of the money for his payment when he gets there. Yep, this one is a scam. But Steve wants it to be real, and I get that. I want it to be real too. But its just not. I think he's gonna do it, he isn't listening to me. I told him at least sit on the money for a few weeks. Give the bank time to realize it's a bad check. Then your just out $30 for a bad check and you'll have all that money to give back to them cause you didn't do anything with it yet. I don't know if he will even listen to me on that.. So I'm thinking of talking to the police, and having them possibly meet here when that guy is supposed to be here to collect the money. This is going to end up a bad deal. I just know it.
Hes smart enough to look up the number from the text, the check account, and the company its from.. for his sake, our sake, I hope it's real.. but I know it's not. A real company would pay the guy doing the wrap themselves. They would never have us do it.
Life with Steve... How do I get him to listen to me without freaking out on me? Hes just someone looking for a bit of hope like everyone else in this world does.. but this one will bite him in the ass if he doesn't walk away from it now..
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